You've Got Mail- I Think I Have Fallen For My Married Boss..

Please help me,

I think I've fallen for my married boss.. 

Please before you judge me I really didn't plan this at all. I normally frown on women that find themselves in this position as I am a strong believer in marriage and keeping ones matrimonial home...

It all started when I received an email confirming that my job application I had made had been successful for an intern role at a very lucrative Investment company. I was over the moon and called instantly to confirm that I could attend the interview planned later that week.

When I arrived I was pleasantly surprised to see a very handsome tall young man smiling at me, who then introduced himself as Dayo the manager of my department. As I was in a happy relationship and was more so concern with securing the job I didn't think much of it. I was happy that he had done well for himself and loved how friendly he was. 

I felt like I had been gisting with an old friend, the interview went better than I could imagine and I was not surprised to receive a call the following week to confirm a starting date.

Starting at the company was life changing for me. Dayo made all effort to look after me and made sure that I got familiar with the systems and that my colleagues treated me well. 

We had lunch a few times together and I could never stop laughing when he started with his jokes.
3 months on and many conversations later and I admired everything about this man. I feel so sad that I didn't meet him first.. he has only been married for 6 months, and the though that I could have married him frustrates me.

I have prayed to get over this feelings but it is really hard as I see him nearly everyday. I have asked him about his wife on few occasions, and while he is happy to talk about her he still always flirts with me by complimenting my hair shoes, clothes. Is that even normal?

I am thinking of actually telling him how I feels. Maybe he will feel the same..

I'm not sure what I plan to achieve, as I would never want to break him and his wife up, but I really really care for him.

If he had similar feeling, I'm ashamed to say that I would be tempted to start something with him.

My relationship with my boyfriend of over 2 years has gone down hill as a result..he doesn't even measure up in anyway to Dayo and I have now realised that I am wasting my time with him.

Would it be foolish of me to follow my heart, or should I just resign before I end up getting hurt?





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