Mid-Week Message: What Is Love Without Sex?

"What is love without sex"?

This is what they have used to lure girls to bed against their wish.Guys tell girls they can't be sure of their love until they open their legs for them.Some silly girls don't even believe a man loves them until he sleeps with them.The fact is this:Sex does not guarantee love.A man who is genuinely interested in you will love you and pamper you with those beautiful gifts even without getting sex from you.Sex is just something that cements an already established and existing love relationship.

When you keep giving your body to every man just because he professes love,how many of them are you going to sleep with before settling down with the right partner.It is only a man who is empty that you can get hooked with sex.I have seen men who,no matter your sexual adventures and beauty,they dump you once it's time to get serious because you are empty upstairs.

Develop yourself more intellectually and be good in the art of housekeeping.Sex is vital in marriage,but there are more important things he is looking out for in his woman.Stop believing that sex and your body is all you need to have him.If he settles down with you just because of those things,what happens by the time you are fifty and the whole thing begins to drop?What if there is no money or gut to go under the knife?

There are virtues every real woman must strive to have in her:
Godliness
Contentment
Enterprising spirit/Hardwork
Humility
Good cooking skills
Good housekeeping skills-it is when you have children people get to know how neat you are.
Honesty/Integrity
Loving heart
High self-esteem
Intelligence-not just academic,but natural/native
Ability to take care of your body and that of your man.
Simple etiquette-walking,talking,sitting,dancing,and doing everything with some feminine charm.
Finally,your sex life in marriage.
There is what we call depreciation in economics;it is applicable in real life.If you are too much in a haste for sex or involved in it more than you should be,chances are that you will lose interest in it at that very point when you need it most.This is why we have very hot girls become useless in bed once they get married;I have handled cases of girls involved in porn almost losing their marriages because their husband isn't getting satisfied in bed,they easily get tired of it in marriage.Guys,if you think she is hot now,remember that very law of depreciation.She will reach her peak and then begin to lose it all.Even her body will be lovely at the initial stage,wait until she drops one;you can't stand the sight of her feminine body.

Sex is not all you need to have a man; there is more to life than just sex.Stop being deceived by what you see and hear from the media,they are all lies.We now live in a world controlled by sex.Any love life that is built on sex is bound to crash someday when those organs can no longer satisfy the man or woman.But look at those couples celebrating their fifty years of marriage and they will tell you that something greater than sex brought them together.If it is sex,the woman will go for other men when prostate cancer,impotence,ejaculation problems, or any accident occurs in that area.The man will go for another woman when the vaginal muscles are gone and the boobs go flat.
Get into it first for friendship and companionship.Build friendship first and you will see yourself happy the rest of your life.Remember: Once sex comes in,you may get blinded to the facts on ground.

Source: Amara Blessing