Relationships: ‎12 Reasons Why Many Guys Don't Like You

Ladies, 

 What do you make of this...?

It's written by a guy of course.

This goes to all the ladies out there. Have you ever

taken time to think of the reasons why that guy

dumped you? Why he doesn't like you? Why that

guy dimmed his love for you? Why your guy

changed all over a sudden? Why guys don’t fall for

you? Why you are remaining single year to year?

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1. YOU LIE TOO MUCH - Guys aren't stupid. They can

tell when they're being lied too. Don't try to hide

who you are because you think a guy won't like the

real you. You can't fool somebody forever and once

the truth comes out he'll never trust you again. So

be yourself to some guys who date you.

2. YOU DON’T APPRECIATE THE LITTLE THINGS HE

DOES FOR YOU - Some guys are horrible with

expressing their feelings, but they try to in their own

little ways. Sometimes it's something small like

picking up a cupcake because they know you'll like

it. Lots of times an act like this goes unnoticed, If a

guy is trying to show you he cares and you don't see

it he'll think you don't care or you don’t love him.

Appreciate his efforts please.

3. YOU TEXT & MAKE CALLS TOO MUCH - Guys like to

feel important. If you're on your phone the whole

time during dinner they'll feel like you don't care

about them. The solution is to turn your phone off

so you can give all your attention to him. Seriously,

nothing is so important to having to always be

texting. Think about it and stop it.

NOTE: Some of these reasons are vice-versa. Some

of the guys out there also do this. They should also

borrow a leaf from these tips.

4. YOU’RE A PARTY ANIMAL - Guys like to have fun,

but they also like to chill out. If you're going out to

bars and clubbing like thrice a week, soon your guy

will get tired of it. First of all it’s not developmental at

all and it’s wastage of time if overdone. So a guy will

hate and dump you for that. If you want to be in a

committed relationship you have to give up the

crazy nights out. I am not saying your never party,

but do it once in a while.

5. SHOWING THAT YOU KNOW EVERYTHING -

Women are smart; we all know this, but some

women think they know everything. Nobody likes a

know-it-all. When you're constantly trying to prove to

a guy that he's wrong it'll eat away at him. Even if

you know you're right about something let it slide.

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It's okay to let someone else have the glory.

6. DO NOT BE AFRAID TO EAT - Here's a fact about

this world: guys like to eat food. If you don't eat

while he is, you'll make them feel awkward. You

don't need to eat a cheeseburger and fries every

day, but do more than have a side salad for dinner.

7. YOU ARE NOT INDEPENDENT ENOUGH - If

whenever life gets rough you run to your parents for

help, it'll turn a guy off. It's good to have a support

system, but if you're calling your mom because you

broke a nail, because your guy never paid all the

necessary bills, if he left insufficient money for

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aunch at home, if he came back late, If he never ate

the food you cooked… it shows you won't be able to

handle the bigger problems when they come.

8. YOU DON’T WORK BUT YOU WANT TO SPEND LIKE

A BILLIONIARE - If you want to shop all day long,

you better have your own money to do it. Guys

don't like having to sweat all day. Many ladies

sometimes like competing, they like buying things

that they won’t use simply because they don’t suit

their standards. They like to poses it and full up their

wardrobe simply because she saw her closest

female friend with it. Guys dislike this; they will

dump you because of being a big spender.

9. YOU NEED TO CHANGE HIM - Guys like who they

are. They are how they are for a reason, basically for

a living. If he's a horrible dresser you can buy him a

new shirt, but don't force anything on him. If he

likes wearing pair of Jeans, T-shirts and sneaks, that

is his style… Don’t try to change him to start putting

on suits that he is not used to. Just love him the way

he is. If you aren't happy with who he is, find

somebody else that makes you happy. But

remember some on can be so stylish but when he

has no true love for you at heart.

10. YOU NEVER DECIDE WHERE TO EAT DINNER

FROM - If you're going out to dinner just make a

choice and stick with it. Guys don't like making a

decision and then changing it and then changing it

again. If you want to go to more than one place,

there's always next weekend.

11. YOU ACT LIKE THE WORLD IS ENDING - There's

nothing worse for a guy than when a girl acts like

the world is ending because her favorite salad

dressing was out of stock when she went grocery

shopping. Even if it means a lot to you try to let it go.

Guys just blow things off and hope you will to.

12. BEING SO FRIENDLY TO HIS FRIENDS - Guys don't

make new friends often. The friends they have are

for life. When you try to step in between a guy and

his buddies all you're doing is creating a barrier

between the two of you. A guy may dump you

because of your being so close to his friends. He will

feel insecure; he will get jealous and starts losing the

trust hence leading to dumping you and even hating

his friends for life. Don’t be into his friends so much;

don’t communicate with them behind his back

unless he is okay with it. Talk to them mostly when

he is around with you.